I dated a couple Polish girls that made me think, “If I were to have a kid, I’d want to have it with her.” That thought has never occurred to me when dating in the United States. If it wasn’t for the American girls I ran into in Poland, Polish girls would have made me forget what it’s like to deal with masculine women. I met Polish lawyers who were in the 99th percentile of femininity. They have a surprisingly sharp sense of humor, with a grasp of sarcasm that is comparable to American girls.Polish women made me want to be a provider—a strong man who could maintain a home and take care of her financially. Polish women prove that it’s possible for a woman to be both intelligent and feminine, and that the two terms aren’t mutually exclusive like I thought when living in Washington DC. I was warned before my arrival that I’d have to tone down my humor because Polish girls wouldn’t get it, but if anything it was the opposite.If a Polish girl gently rebuffs your date suggestion by saying she’s busy with school, she’s probably being truthful instead of blowing you off. I could dial it up from what it was in Iceland and Denmark.I was surprised that my American-style humor transferred so well until I discovered that they love American movies and television. They don’t know how to lead you on, trick you, or use you.If she refuses, ask, – ‘are you sure’ - and try not to insist beyond that point, but obviously use your own judgment; after all if the place is expensive and it was your idea to come here, you should insist… Don’t make fun of her, her friends or family members. Yes, it's pretty difficult but very rewarding - even a few words in Polish will bring you lots of sympathy.So, in general, yes, you are expected to pay, but don’t be pushy or macho, and if she wants, let her share the bill with you. If you don't like something about her now, you never gonna like it in the future. Fortunately there are millions of beautiful Polish Women on this planet - sooner or later you'll find the right one. There is a plenty of Polish language schools for foreigners in Poland and abroad – especially in the UK.
Just remember, when dating a Polish woman, it’s never wrong to offer getting the bill. If you don’t like the your Polish woman speaks or dresses, find another Polish woman, there are millions of them. I used the word ‘start’ deliberately, because the process of learning Polish language never really ends, also for native speakers.Finally, whatever you decide, be polite, self-confident and smile a lot - this attitude may win you many hearts.This rule of Polish Dating means you hold the door and let the Polish girl go first.Polish dating isn’t that much different from British dating, American dating or German dating.
If you know who you are and you can be charming and polite, you may as well forget any rules. It is a skill you can learn, but since even Polish men often kiss woman’s hands the wrong way, worry not - just keep trying until you can kiss hand like Roman Polanski.
The funniest girl I ever dated was Polish, even though her English wasn’t that great. The biggest fight I had with a girl in Poland, if you want to call it that, was when she refused to suck my dick while she was on her period. The girls are so easygoing that I don’t even know how a throw-stuff-across-the-room type of fight could occur. Correction: they probably know how to do those things with simpleton Polish guys, but if you’re moderately experienced in the game you’ll be able to read a Polish girl’s intentions from a mile away.